Dear Bitter Butch: How Do I Handle Terrible Parenting?

I keep forgetting to link my Bitter Butch advice columns here!

Dear Bitter Butch,

Last week someone brought their twins into the office. They are, I dunno, less than a year old? The boy is starting to walk, the girl hasn’t yet, so however old that would make them.

And the boy was crying.

And the mom commented that when the boy cries, the dad says, in a sing-songy voice, “We’re not raising a wussy!” . . . read the rest at

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Writer, parent, cripple, queer; worker, dancer. City dweller. Bicyclist. I love whiskey, tea, and cussing.